One of the biggest challenges we face as Christians is controlling our tongues. James reminds us that the tongue is a member of our bodies that cannot be tamed (James 3:8). This is not an excuse to misuse the tongue; it is a warning to always be careful and aware of the damage that it can cause. While we cannot tame the tongue, we can control it. This week I want us to focus on the proper use of the tongue. The first thing that we should do when it comes to our tongues is be sure that we always tell the truth. The scriptures exhort us, as Christians, to be honest.

Romans 13:12-13 (KJV)
¹² The night is far spent; the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness and let us put on the armor of light. 13 Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying.

There is a connection between putting on the armor of light and walking honestly. Most dishonest acts take place under the cover of darkness. When we put on the armor of light, always walking honestly, we never have to be ashamed of what people see when they examine us.

1 Peter 2:12 (KJV)
¹² Having your conversation honest among the Gentiles: that, whereas they speak against you as evildoers, they may by your good works, which they shall behold, glorify God in the day of visitation.

The word conversation in the King James Version refers to our conduct. However, the way we speak to others is a part of our overall conduct. The truth is, we cannot make a habit of lying and then claim that our conduct is honest. The conclusion others will have about us (if they cannot trust what we say) will be that we are dishonest and lack integrity. More importantly, the devil will use our lack of integrity to exploit us spiritually for his own gain. This is why Paul included truth when he spoke of the armor of God.

Ephesians 6:13-14 (ESV)
¹³ Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. 14 Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth…

The truth Paul is referring to here has to do with having honest character and genuineness. We must gird ourselves with integrity, and those with integrity always speak the truth.

As Christians let us be known for our integrity and truth telling. People should know that while we may not always be right, we will never try to deceive. Let us purpose in our hearts to use our tongues to only tell the truth. If you struggle with this, ask God for help. The Psalmist knew of the danger of falling into the trap of deceitfulness and asked God to deliver him from it.

Psalm 120:2 (ESV)
² Deliver me, O LORD, from lying lips, from a deceitful tongue.

This should be the prayer of us all, for the consequences of lying are severe. John reminds us that all liars will have their part in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone (Revelation21:8).

As you wind down for the night, think on these things.